how it works
Wisper guides you through a quiet rhythm of connection — each moment leading gently to the next, only when it feels right.
FIRST Date
A short, timed chat. A first glimpse into someone’s world.
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Next Date
Follow-up if you both say yes. More time, more intention with the option to turn the camera on later.
MEET UP
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If something real begins to form, you take it offline. From there, the next step is yours.
Your first date is a five-minute live chat. Join a scheduled Flash Date, where you're randomly paired with someone who meets your preferences. Or browse and request one anytime with Premium. If something clicks, you meet again on Next Dates.
FIRST DATE
A longer date with no time limit. As you talk, the intimacy level quietly grows based on shared time and depth. When you've connected enough, you'll unlock the option to turn on your camera, and eventually, to schedule a real-life Meet-Up.
NEXT DATE
When your connection deepens, Wisper helps you take it offline. You choose a time and place in the app, then meet in real life. Afterward, you both decide whether to share contact details and keep going — or part ways with clarity.
MEET UP
You meet people who match your preferences like age, gender, and distance. Premium gives you more control, with optional filters for personal values and physical traits like ethnicity and height. Anyone can always let things unfold by exploring these topics as part of the conversation.
YOUR PREFERENCES
Every date ends with a choice — match, or move on. But even when it doesn’t go further, there’s something to take with you. Wisper invites both people to share a short reflection after each date. It’s simple, honest, and private. A chance to understand how you come across, and what might have been missing. Premium users can unlock all their feedback. Free users receive one reflection each month, so there’s always something to grow from.
DATE FEEDBACK
Some connections don’t land the first time. Maybe the timing was off, or something was missed. With Premium, you can revisit a past unmatched date by asking for a second chance.
If they feel the same, the conversation reopens. If not, nothing changes — no pressure, no awkwardness. Because sometimes, a second hello can mean more than the first.